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The free community is open to every dad, bonus dads included, wherever you live. Small groups open country by country, as enough dads join and we have a host who can be there in your evenings.

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Every countryThe free communityOpen

Anonymous stories, the Sunday Letter every week, and first access to the boards when they open. Free, always.

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Every countryThe LibraryOpens 15 December

Short audio sessions for the drive home, "What to say when…" scripts for hard conversations, and practical guides for every stage. Use it on your own, any time. Sunday Letter readers get the founding-member price.

Get the Sunday Letter
United Kingdom and IrelandDad CirclesSpring 2027

Six to eight dads at your stage, with a host. A voice call every two weeks on a UK and Ireland evening, plus voice notes and text in between. No video. The first pilot Circles start in spring 2027 and are free for 12 weeks. Tell us your times now and you'll be first to hear.

Tell us your times
US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and elsewhereDad CirclesNot open here yet

Circles start in the UK and Ireland in spring 2027. Tell us when you could make it anyway: once enough dads in your time zone are waiting, and we have a host who can be there in your evenings, we'll open your slot and invite you first.

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United Kingdom and IrelandThrough your workFounding partners

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